This is not a typical episode. Nachi Gordon sits down in Yerushalayim with Arnold Roth, whose 15 year old daughter Malki was murdered in the Sbarro pizzeria bombing on August 9, 2001. Arnold shares who Malki was, the last "I love you" she exchanged with her mother, and the twelve hours the family spent searching for her before the 2 a.m. phone call from her brothers. But the story doesn't end there. Ahlam Tamimi, the woman who planned the attack, was sentenced to 16 life terms, freed in the 2011 Gilad Shalit deal, and has been living openly in Jordan ever since, where she even hosted her own TV show. She is the only woman on the FBI's Most Wanted Terrorists list, with a $5 million reward on her head, and Jordan still refuses to hand her over. Arnold explains why he calls the silence of governments and American Jewish leadership a betrayal, and what each of us can do about it. Sign the petition to extradite Ahlam Tamimi: https://www.change.org/p/we-urge-the-president-and-secretary-of-state-of-the-united-states-to-do-everything-necessary-so-that-jordan-which-has-thwarted-this-process-for-years-finally-complies-with-its-treaty-obligation-and-with-fundamental-notions-of-justice Learn more about the Malki Foundation: https://www.kerenmalki.org This episode is sponsored by: ► PZ Deals Never pay full price again when you download the PZ Deals app. https://app.pz.deals/install/mpp _________________ ► Colel Chabad Pushka App The easiest way to give Tzedaka. https://pushkapp.cc/meaningful _________________ ► Touro Serious about your education and your Torah learning? Touro's Lander College for Men/Beis Medrash L'Talmud offers over 20 majors and pre-professional tracks, including finance, computer science, accounting, biology, psychology, pre-law, pre-dental and pre-med, plus honors pathways into New York Medical College and Touro College of Dental Medicine. Join the Open House on November 8. https://lcm.touro.edu/openhouse _________________ ► Ness Vacation Homes Eden Gardens' largest luxury home collection. Handpicked, high end homes available exclusively through Ness. https://nessvacationhomes.com/ _________________ ► Daily 613 Daily 613 is writing Sifrei Torah in memory of the victims of October 7th. Every letter is a letter of remembrance, and the more that is raised, the more Sifrei Torah will be written. Be part of the next one. https://causematch.com/daily613 _________________ ► Nishmasi A new project from Rabbi Efrem Goldberg to strengthen your emunah. Eight WhatsApp communities, including shidduchim, fertility, finance, illness and more, with daily messages from Rabbi Goldberg tailored to your chapter in life. Find your community and join today. https://nishmasi.org _________________ ► Rothenberg Law Firm Personal Injury Law Firm for 50+ years! Reach out today for a free case evaluation. https://shorturl.at/JFKHH _________________ ► Town Appliance Visit the website or message them on WhatsApp. https://www.townappliance.com https://bit.ly/Townappliance_whatsapp Timestamps: 0:00 Intro: Not a Typical Episode 3:53 Arnold Roth on Who Malki Was and Her Last Summer 9:05 August 9, 2001: The Sbarro Bombing 11:19 Twelve Hours Searching for Malki 16:26 The Shiva and Silence From the Israeli Government 19:48 A Zionist Let Down: Ahlam Tamimi Walks Free in Jordan 24:16 How Tamimi Planned and Carried Out the Attack 29:49 The Arrest, 16 Life Sentences, and a Secret Court Transcript 32:31 No Real Interest From the US as Tamimi Becomes a Prison Celebrity 36:12 The Shalit Deal: Tamimi at the Top of Hamas's List 39:22 Tamimi's TV Show in Jordan and Arnold Roth's Trip to Washington 43:35 2017: The US Charges Tamimi and Posts a $5 Million Reward 46:33 Jordan Declares Its Extradition Treaty Invalid 49:11 "A Foremost Priority": The Biden Administration Letter That Went Nowhere 51:58 If the US Really Wanted Tamimi, They Would Get Her 53:26 Billions for Jordan and the Silence of American Jewish Leaders 1:00:36 Everyone Knows Where Tamimi Lives, and the King of Jordan's VIP Treatment 1:03:06 "A Betrayal": What Arnold Roth Would Say to Tamimi 1:04:42 What Justice Would Change, and Losing Son-in-Law Naftali 1:09:58 The Malki Foundation and Nachi's Call to Sign the Petition

On October 7, Andrey Kozlov was working security at the Nova festival, just 13 months after moving to Israel alone from Russia. He ran for hours under fire, tore off his security shirt on a barbed wire fence minutes before he was caught, and was driven into Gaza by a terrorist he thought was rescuing him. For eight months he was held in eight different houses, including inside a family's apartment, until the IDF rescued him with Shlomi Ziv and Almog Meir Jan on June 8, 2024. Andrey shares the hunger, the threats, the handmade calendar the hostages prayed over, the moment he saw his mother again, and the art he now makes from what he lived through. Timestamps: 0:00 Andrey Kozlov's New Life in Israel and Working Security at Nova 2:20 Rockets Over the Nova Festival 4:59 Trapped as the Terrorists Close In 7:18 Running Through the Woods 9:26 Escaping in a Stranger's Car 11:33 Meeting the Families of the Friends in the Car 15:22 Hiding Behind the Cars and the Torn Security Shirt 19:22 Face to Face With a Terrorist and the Cliff 25:37 Meeting Shlomi and the Terrorist in Green 28:30 Forced to Drive Into Gaza 34:46 Tied Up in a House in Gaza 41:27 Almog Arrives and the Threat to Kill Them on Camera 44:47 "We Want an Exchange" 48:06 Alex Lobanov, Eight Houses and Going Hungry 52:00 What the Captors Told Them About October 7 56:27 Al Jazeera and Living in a Family's Apartment 1:01:57 486 Bombs in One Night and Talking to God 1:07:33 The Handmade Chess Calendar 1:10:30 June 8: The Rescue 1:16:42 Why the Hostages Never Tried to Escape 1:18:13 The Helicopter Out of Gaza and the Real Heroes 1:24:37 Landing in Israel and Reuniting With Family 1:32:02 Alex Lobanov's Fate and a Message to Hostage Families 1:37:23 Life After the Rescue and the Art Born in Gaza 1:42:57 Meeting Trump, Tomer Peretz and an Exhibit for the Hostages 1:49:02 A Message to Anti-Israel Protesters 1:50:44 "Why Me?" A Message to Those Who Prayed

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Music: No Limits by Soundridemusic The shidduch system says stay in your lane: same hashkafa, same schools, and wait for the shadchan to call. Rivkah Fox thinks that's exactly what's keeping so many people single. With Blind Fate, the matchmaking platform she started on Instagram, she's throwing out the boxes and labels with anonymous bios, blind video dates and caricature resumes, and setting up couples the system would never put together, like a yeshivish guy with smicha and a modern Orthodox Ramaz grad who are now married with kids. Hundreds of singles in eight countries have gotten married through her setups, and instead of pushback, rabbanim and even a Rebbe's gabbai are calling her for help. Nachi Gordon pushes her on all of it: whether crossing hashkafa lines puts someone's Yiddishkeit at risk, why she calls image the biggest problem in the shidduch world, how she gets paid without becoming a debt collector, and the week an entire family turned on her over one green check on the Loop app. This episode is sponsored by: ► PZ Deals Never pay full price again when you download the PZ Deals app. https://app.pz.deals/install/mpp _________________ ► Colel Chabad Pushka App The easiest way to give Tzedaka. https://pushkapp.cc/meaningful _________________ ► Ness Vacation Homes Eden Gardens' largest luxury home collection. Handpicked, high end homes available exclusively through Ness. https://nessvacationhomes.com/ _________________ ► Shopify Guru Store looks great but not selling the way it should? Shopify Guru's Daniel gets under the hood and makes it actually work, no developer needed every time you want to make a change. Call 732-534-1404 or go to shopifyguru.io. https://go.jcn.io/sgmp _________________ ► Rothenberg Law Firm Personal Injury Law Firm for 50+ years! Reach out today for a free case evaluation. https://shorturl.at/JFKHH _________________ ► Town Appliance Visit the website or message them on WhatsApp. https://www.townappliance.com https://bit.ly/Townappliance_whatsapp Timestamps: 0:00 Intro: Meet Rivkah Fox, the Matchmaker Behind Blind Fate 3:25 Rivkah's First Match at 16 and How Blind Fate Started 7:03 Blind Video Dates and the Wall Street Grill Vote That Ended in a Wedding 10:43 Hundreds of Marriages and the Viral Caricature Resumes 13:50 Do Singles Need More Today, and What the Rabbanim Think 15:36 Dating Beyond Your Hashkafa: The Yeshivish Guy and the Ramaz Girl 23:56 Religious Gaps, Baalei Teshuva, and Letting Go of Image 26:36 Rebbes on Speed Dial and the Heard Not Seen Podcast 29:17 Paying Shadchanim and Rivkah's Business Model 33:56 The Biggest Barrier to Getting Married 36:05 Too Many Advisors? Why One Mentor Is Enough 39:15 The One That Got Away: A Zodiac Reader Says No 42:31 Long Lists and What Singles Bring to the Table 45:48 What Married People Should Stop Saying and the Fifth Date Myth 48:35 Parents, "Shipaa," and Red vs. Green Flags 51:46 Turning Clients Away and the Loop App Blowup 55:06 Crazy Shidduch Questions and What's Next for Blind Fate

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In this special throwback episode,Nachi Gordon sits down with Rivka Shotkin, a 16 year old from Passaic and the youngest guest in Meaningful People history. On January 31, 2021, a family ski trip in Tannersville ended when Rivka missed a turn on her last run of the day and went straight into a tree, breaking 11 bones, puncturing both lungs, and severing her spinal cord. She walks us through waking up in the ICU nine days later, three months of rehab during COVID without being able to see her family, and landing back in the hospital with septic shock just five days after finally coming home. What makes this one special is how Rivka talks about all of it. She opens up about how unhappy she was before the accident, the strange sense of peace she felt that weekend, why she now calls her injury a gift, and what she wants the community to understand about treating people in wheelchairs. It's funny, honest, and genuinely inspiring. This episode is sponsored by: ► PZ Deals Never pay full price again when you download the PZ Deals app. https://app.pz.deals/install/mpp _________________ ► Colel Chabad Pushka App The easiest way to give Tzedaka. https://pushkapp.cc/meaningful _________________ ► Shopify Guru Store looks great but not selling the way it should? Shopify Guru's Daniel gets under the hood and makes it actually work, no developer needed every time you want to make a change. Call 732-534-1404 or go to shopifyguru.io. https://go.jcn.io/sgmp _________________ ► Ness Vacation Homes Eden Gardens' largest luxury home collection. Handpicked, high end homes available exclusively through Ness. https://nessvacationhomes.com/ _________________ ► Rothenberg Law Firm Personal Injury Law Firm for 50+ years! Reach out today for a free case evaluation. https://shorturl.at/JFKHH _________________ ► Town Appliance Visit the website or message them on WhatsApp. https://www.townappliance.com https://bit.ly/Townappliance_whatsapp Timestamps: 0:00 Intro: Meet Rivka Shotkin, MPP's Youngest Guest Ever 4:02 Welcome to the Studio and Growing Up in Passaic 7:23 The Ski Trip to Tannersville That Changed Everything 10:10 Airlifted to Albany and Waking Up Nine Days Later 13:20 Learning Rivka Was Paralyzed and Eli Portell's Advice 15:49 Anger, Dark Humor, and Taking It in Stride 18:04 Three Months of Rehab During COVID 22:07 Punishment, Test, or Gift? 23:33 Coming Home, a Wedding Cake, and Septic Shock 27:29 How to Accept What You Never Signed Up For 29:45 Unhappy Before the Accident and a Strange Premonition 31:57 Choosing Happiness and Strength From Rivka's Parents 34:59 Brain Surgeon Dreams and How to Treat People in Wheelchairs 38:20 Emunah, Hashgacha, and Not Being Afraid of the Pain 42:36 Rivka's Second Rosh Hashanah 46:17 Camp Simcha and Rivka's Support System 49:06 Poetry, Dreams, and Determination

Nachi Gordon hosts a live panel on sexual abuse in the frum community, recorded at an event presented by Ray of Hope and Amudim right before Rosh Hashanah. He's joined by Amudim founder Zvi Gluck, Amudim's Director of Education Avi Landa, Amudim Clinical Director Dr. Miriam Lankry, and Ray of Hope founder Zelda Brody, who opens the evening by sharing her own story of abuse and the years of silent suffering that led her to build Ray of Hope. Using live audience polling throughout the night, the panel works through how well the community actually handles abuse, how young the conversation about bodies and boundaries with kids should start, and what to say and what never to say when someone discloses to you. From there the conversation moves into harder territory: which warning signs actually mean something, why going to a rav first is often not the full answer, when police need to be the first call, and how survivors navigate marriage, dating, and family relationships with relatives who still stay close to their abuser. Zvi, Avi, Miriam, and Zelda spend real time on why so many people still stay silent out of shame, push back hard on the idea that abusers often get more communal support than their victims, and close out the night on what they'd want every survivor in the room, and everyone listening at home, to walk away knowing. Timestamps: 0:00 Welcome and Panel Introductions 2:33 Avi Landa on Amudim's Educational Mission 3:56 Dr. Miriam Lankry on Clinical Case Management 6:06 Zelda Brody's Story: From Silent Suffering to Ray of Hope 11:49 Live Poll: Does the Community Handle Abuse Well? 14:21 Talking to Kids About Safety and Boundaries 19:50 The Boy Who Waited Six Months to Be Asked 22:36 What to Say (and Never Say) When a Child Discloses 26:34 The Power of "I Believe You" 28:47 Warning Signs Parents and Educators Should Watch For 34:08 Poll: Who Would You Call First 36:16 Debating the Rav's Role in a Crisis 39:10 Victim Services and Funding Available 42:11 When Siblings Stay Close to the Abuser 46:40 Marriage, Dating, and Disclosing Before the Wedding 51:31 Poll: What Stops People From Speaking Up 53:00 Crediting Amudim and Ray of Hope's Impact 58:16 Why Early Therapy Makes Future Help-Seeking Easier 1:00:19 A Caller Afraid to Start Healing 1:01:00 The Grocery Store Encounter That Changed a Life 1:03:36 Rebuilding Trust Through Community 1:05:11 Getting Better at Feeling, Not Just Feeling Better 1:07:25 Shame as the Biggest Barrier to Speaking Up 1:09:27 When Abusers Get More Support Than Survivors 1:12:26 Does It Matter If the Abuser Was a Victim Too? 1:13:49 Toxic Shame vs. Shame That Belongs to You 1:14:57 Closing Question: What Survivors Should Take Home

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